Oct 16, 2009

Moments..

Everyday when I open my eyes to the sun’s first rays in the morning, I wonder how many more days will I get to live like this. Lying on my warm and cozy bed I always feel that there would be a time when all this would cease to exist. My mother who always gets me a cup of tea when I get up, my father who without fail wishes me a ‘good morning’ each day with a big smile, my kid nephew who comes to me for a kiss on his forehead the first thing in the morning and all such events of small happiness & the feeling of being at home… how long will all of this stay with me? Life moves along. I would have to forsake all this some day either when I get married or when I leave for further studies or a job. Life would never be the same. My house, my room, my study table, my dressing table, my pet birds, my pet fishes… how long will I be able to stay with them in the same way as I am living now? This feeling sent a shiver down my spine.

There is a typical question you are always asked in an interview, “Where do you see yourself in xx years?” (xx being anything ranging from 3 to 15). The answer to this, as many people know, is either ‘at a big position earning whole lots of money’ or ‘having a business of your own’. I asked myself this same question. The answer I got was, “I don’t know. But all I know is that, then, I won’t be as happy as I am now. Because nothing of what is there in my life would exist in the same way as it is now.”

There are so many people on this earth who are not happy with the way they are living their life currently. They crib, complain about small inconveniences, hurl abuses at the slightest of frustrations, fight with their family, hit their wives and kids… the list is exhausting. The fact is they’d never be happy how much ever they get in life, because most of them link happiness to money. They slog right since their childhood, keep studying, earn degrees, get a good job, get a girl/guy, get married, but still keep slogging. Where is the time for real happiness?

This was the time when I thought that I too am doing all of this right since I was born. I was never happy with the way I used to look, with my mark-sheet, my friends, my wardrobe, my school, blah blah… I kept slogging little realizing that God had indeed given me umpteen happy moments which I always managed to overlook due to constant sorrow over some things I never had but others had.

Shortly after that, I decided that I would list down all the moments when I was really happy and look at that list whenever I felt that I was lacking something. The list was so exhaustive that I almost forgot I was ever unhappy. I became aware of the joy around me and the little time for which it would stay with me. It gave me a very happy feeling that I have many a things for which I should be thankful to the Almighty. We all have such moments of exultation in our life, but, for the time being. Therefore, I urge all you people to look around you carefully, notice the small things in life. Reminisce about the moments that made you happy or even better, jot them down. Don’t miss that chance of living and re-living such moments. They would give you the peace you need in life but they would never come back. So, value your life, value the little happiness you have in it instead of crying for what you don’t have and spoiling even the joy you could have actually had.

Just for sharing with you readers; listed below are SOME of such moments in my life which gave me immense happiness (starting in ascending order of my age):


1. Small glimpses of my first birthday are still embedded in my mind when my brother lifted me and kissed me happy birthday and I cut the largest & sweetest cake of my life.

2. At the age of 3, when mom came to pick me up after the first day of my nursery school, I was so so so happy to have seen her that I started wailing.

3. When I used to go to the temple with my father, he never used to allow me to walk and always used to lift me in his arms. I still remember how protected I used to feel in his arms.

4. When I made my first friend in nursery school, I realized we both shared a common name and she was very friendly. She is still a best friend of mine.

5. In the year when I turned 14, 5 friends of mine and I went to the terrace of our building on the 31st of December at 11.45pm and flew a left-over Diwali rocket in the sky at exactly 12.00am and welcomed the new year, hugging each other and eating sweets.

6. On the first day of my Degree College, all students were ragged but somehow I was left because there wasn’t much time left for the day… (What a relief that was!) :-)

7. My 18th birthday, when my entire college group of 7 guys and a girl came rushing into my house unannounced, I was left dumbstruck as I wearing a gown and had half-done my make up.. (

8. The days of college when I used to travel with my friends in the local train from Churchgate to Kandivali, were the best days of my life. We used to play all sorts of games from Antakshari to what not and used to be head turners for all the other passengers.

9. The day when I was sitting in a restaurant and having tea with my best friend. He happened to roll up a ball of tissue paper which he flung aimlessly. It went flying into a South Indian lady’s cup of tea behind me. I remember her hurling unheard abuses in her language. I have had the heartiest laugh of my life that day.

10. I remember very well the most successful presentation I gave in my college life. My professor, with whom I was loggerheads in the beginning, actually told me later during one of our online chats that he was proud of me. I have never ever felt more satisfied in my life.

11. I received an unexpected call from one of the MNCs after graduation saying that I had cleared the interview and that I was selected. The icing on the cake was that my best female friend and I got placed in the same firm.

12. One of the latest events that gave me happiness was; when I, along with a friend, went up on the escalators but in the opposite direction. We both were a sight to see with all others around us, cheering and clapping for us.

For all of you reading this; if you think this list is complete and has only 12 events, then you’re wrong. Because there are 1000s of such events which crossed my mind while writing this, but due to space, time and personal issues I have not listed them down.

I urge all of you to do this. Trust me, it has left me with a reason to live life happily and thank God for all those 1000+ events he has bestowed upon me so far…

Happy Diwali to all of you… and live a happy life with full of happy events… :-)

25 comments:

Anoop said...

money is not happiness... but money can buy u things which make u happy... ;)

n u remember wat happened in ur nursery skool???? OMG!! mayb true..but felt as flattery..
neva mind!

khe khe khe... ;)

but its always good to note down things which made u happy... :D

Nethra A said...

U remember your first birthday? Amazing!! :)

vineet said...

beatific presentation...loved the flow

..jus a suggestion dat make it a bit mre crispy

√♪נ汉Ψ said...

You remember a lot of stuff from past.......
Gr8 thing........
:)

Pooja Menon said...

@ all.. thanks for all ur precious comments.. thr r jus a few moments frm my childhood which i remember coz they gave me immense happiness.. it may seem to be flattery.. but they were damn close to my heart.. :-)

Karthik said...

I'm speechless! All I can manage to say is, "Thanks!"
Happy Diwali! :)

Vipin said...

well jolted down..liked the way u rembered all ur past in sequential manner..and u rembred ur 1st bday.....hard to believe..but i trust u..and ya im sure out of those 1000 unlisted moments is a mixture of good and sad moments too..coz human life is incomple only when he undergoes bright and dark sides of his life...and ya may be im not sure of those 999 moments but one out of those will be 12th may 2009..when we met on net...

KESA JAIPUR said...

im nt sure f it ws thought provoking bcoz we all knw dis in d first place isnt it?....bt den njoyed d way 2 narrated it here in dis space....pleasant read....

but den u r happy nw??...we doubt

Nickhil Patokar said...

Well i think, we get happiness from mostly from small things which go unnoticed. and when you say you will not be as happy as you are now; why i mean you will still have some small things around you which will give you happiness, maybe be they wont be the same but still they will be there...

Whats ur say....

Mirrors Do Lie said...

Really a very interesting post !

Vishal... said...

Hmmm.... :)

ganesh said...

right, recalling the happiest moments of life and sharing them with the people around is a great feeling.......:):):):):)

Nickhil Patokar said...

@pooja... that is what i said too naa....

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vineet said...

believe me.. i did the 12th event jus a couple of weeks bak here in chennai at a bz mall..kinda awesum as we obstructed the flow of crowd fr couple of minutes..n fr ur kind information i was brutually ragged so no points fr dat...BTW ur abt is inspiring

Abhyudaya said...

That's called life. Nice blog.

vamsi said...

yeah its quite unfortunate that the only constant hing called 'CHANGE' changes everything in life..the post was very very very nicee..:)

bilal.... said...

where do u see yourself aftr xx years?.. i smiled myself after reading it, i experienced the same in my interview too :)

Pooja Menon said...

@ all .. thanks a lot..

@ KESA JAIPUR.. yes.. i am very happy now.. have learnt how to be happy whatever the circumstances be.. :-)

@ Nickhil.. Maybe what you're saying is correct.. but that happiness wont be the same.. coz the circumstances wont be the same.. but then.. i have learnt to be happy whatever the situation be.. :-) .. coz life keeps changing.. upn n downs r a healthy part of life..

Shaunak said...

Hey Pooja, thanks for the memories from childhood. Now I can add them to my list of yaadein :)

http://sublimecreativity.blogspot.com/2009/05/yaadein-hi-yaadein.html

Pooja Menon said...

@ Shaunak.. THanks for dropping by.. And my pleasure! :)

Vibushan Lakshminarayan said...

Nice poetry! and a nice blog as well.. Will keep visiting :)

Vibushan
www.thegeminimind.blogspot.com

Pooja Menon said...

@Vibhushan.. Thanks a ton man! Will drop by yours too soon.. :)

Vibushan L Narayan said...

@Pooja
A load of good articles. Its like food as i'm quite jobless now :P

Sourav C. Pandey said...

Life gives you more to live for, just keep looking around you! :)